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It Shouldn’t Require A Sports Scandal To Take Sex Abuse Seriously

Bryan Swalley is a good friend and colleague.  When he suggested that he could provide a unique perspective on the Penn State sex-abuse scandal, I gladly told him that this website will serve as his platform.  The following was written by Bryan.  I hope that you respect his honesty and willingness to open up about a sensitive subject in his past.

My heart breaks for the victims of Jerry Sandusky. Very few people know what it is like to have your childhood tainted like that. Very few people know what it is like to have your innocence taken away at such a young age. Very few people know what it is like to have a male authority figure take advantage of his position and/or influence on little boys. I am one of the unfortunate few that knows what it is like. When I was a very young boy in school, a teacher molested me. Fortunately, I knew what was going on was wrong. I told my grandmother (she raised me and I call her “mom”) and we went to the authorities. I testified against him in court and he went to prison. Still, that is nothing a 6 year old child should ever have to do.

Every person who has turned a blind eye to sex abuse is completely guilty of not only letting the predator get away with it, but letting others fall victim to the abuse. I do not know how it is humanly possible for someone to try to sweep an act like that under the rug. Trust me, these actions produce lifelong memories. Every time I hear on the news or read in the paper of child sex abuse, I’m reminded of what happened. Needless to say, this past week has been troubling for me.

The Penn State scandal may go down as one of the largest profiled child sexual abuse scandals in history. There is no better time than right now to take a proactive stance against this atrocious act against our youth. If you have children, even if you don’t, please take the time to familiarize yourself with the warning signs a sexually abused child may display.  According to ChildLuresPrevention.com only 3% of child sexual predators are caught. That is absolutely appalling.

Educate yourself, educate your child. Through education, we can decrease the number of sex abuse cases and increase the number of convictions.

By Darren Heitner

Darren Adam Heitner, Esq., is a preeminent sports attorney and the founder of Heitner Legal, P.L.L.C., a Fort Lauderdale-based law firm specializing in sports law, contract negotiations, intellectual property, and arbitration. He earned his Juris Doctor from the University of Florida Levin College of Law in 2010 and a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science, magna cum laude, from the University of Florida in 2007, where he was named Valedictorian of the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences. Admitted to practice in the state bars of Florida, New York, and the District of Columbia, as well as multiple federal courts, Darren also serves as a certified arbitrator with the American Arbitration Association.

As an adjunct professor, Darren imparts his expertise through teaching Sports Law at the University of Florida Levin College of Law and Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL) at the University of Miami School of Law in the Entertainment, Arts, and Sports Law LL.M. program. His scholarly contributions include authoring several books published by the American Bar Association, such as How to Play the Game: What Every Sports Attorney Needs to Know, and numerous articles in prominent publications like Forbes, Inc. Magazine, and Above the Law. His thought leadership in NIL has earned him recognition as one of the foremost experts by The Wall Street Journal, USA TODAY, and On3, and he has been lauded as a “power player in NIL deals” by Action Network and a “top sports trademark attorney” by Sportico.

Darren’s passion for sports law led him to establish Sports Agent Blog on December 31, 2005, initially titled “I Want To Be A Sports Agent.” The platform, created as a New Year’s resolution, has grown into a cornerstone of the sports agency community, offering in-depth analysis of industry trends, legal disputes, and agent-player dynamics. His commitment to the field is further evidenced by his representation of numerous athletes and sports agents, as well as his prior role as an Adjunct Professor at Indiana University Bloomington, where he developed and taught a course on Sport Agency Management from 2011 to 2014.

Darren’s contributions have been recognized with prestigious honors, including the University of Florida’s 40 Under 40 Award, the University of Florida Levin College of Law’s Outstanding Young Alumnus Award, and designation as the best lawyer in Fort Lauderdale by Fort Lauderdale Magazine. He remains an active voice in the sports law community, sharing insights through his weekly NIL newsletter and his X posts, engaging a broad audience on legal developments in sports.

One reply on “It Shouldn’t Require A Sports Scandal To Take Sex Abuse Seriously”

I praise your sentiments and respect what you’ve done and will continue to do. Although not me, but I’ve got close family members that have suffered from these abusive predators. I hope we can, as a society, clean up our act and police our own areas, ridding the filth that prey on young children. Thanks for sharing your story.

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